Life Lessons

Bitchmouth – The Angry Post!

Right. There is no Morning Gorgeous this morning. As anyone who knows this blog will know, everything I write comes straight from the heart. Whatever I’m feeling at the time I write is what I put down.

And today, I am angry. VERY angry.

I’m angry at a lot of people. But I’m also angry at myself. I’ll deal with myself first.

I’m angry at myself for not dealing with things in the right way. I made a mistake this morning and it’s cost me. Not a lot, my reputation has taken a battering and will do in the near future. But I can handle that in the context of what’s going on. What I’m angry at, for myself, is writing something down in the way I did. At times like this you make mistakes, sometimes you make a joke that’s taken the wrong way. And that’s what I did. I shouldn’t have done it. But I did. I could kick myself.

Now to why I’m angry at other people. I’m angry at other people because there’s better ways of dealing with something like that.

Women can be bitchy. VERY bitchy. It’s a part of being female. And I’m something I’m learning the hard way. But when you publicly tell people something personal to you and they continue to treat you the way they do, that’s wrong. Accuse me all you like, but there’s more to me than that. And if you get to know me, you’ll realise that.

So. This post is for all the girls in the group known as Bitchmouth on Facebook. This post is an apology to you for triggering something nasty and breaking the rules.

But it is also to tell certain people within the group to go do one. There’s better ways of dealing with a difficult situation. And before you say it; I don’t know what it was it was like in the playground, because my situation occurred in the playground.

Your loss.


By Vikki Kinsella

My name is Vikki, and I’m a Transgender Female living and working in the UK.

I’ve started this blog purely as a way of writing down my thoughts and feelings, as I now start my journey through transition from living life as Male to becoming Female, and beyond. You see, I spent 45 years of my life living as, what is now known as, a cisgender Male - With almost no idea that I could even consider being Female, let alone consider corrective surgery. But I must admit I did have a tendency to THINK like a woman sometimes... But doesn't every Man think like a woman on occasion? Don't try and hide it boys, you know you do, lol...

9 replies on “Bitchmouth – The Angry Post!”

I’m OK hun. Just going through it at the minute. Gotta be honest, I never expected cuddles and rainbows; but I did expect a greater level of maturity in the group. Ah well, it actually broke me and I’ve shed a few tears this morning; which is what was needed. Thank you hun xx


The joke was about someone being in prison, there was no mention of rape. As you can see from this blog. Why would I joke about something like that after going through what I’ve been through? I’m not the victim, I’m saying there have been wrongs on both sides; but obviously you can’t see that. So it’s not my loss either, is it?


Hi 🙂
I hope you’re doing ok … just to let you know, not all us biological females are bitchy, but we usually ended up on the receiving end of those bitches.
Oh … and just a little heads up … Your Blog … Your Rules 😉
Love and light xo


Hiya Chicken 🙂
I’ll get there darling, but it’ll take a while. And I know, something tells me these ladies have a little growing up to do.
Thank you for your kind words, you’re a kind person. And you’re right about the blog, it is mine and the associated facebook page – go take a look, any pointers would be useful; I trust your judgement.
Hope you’re doing OK yourself, if not; you have an ally you can PM at any time.
Much Love xx

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