Dec 2022

Hey gorgeous…

Morning gorgeous πŸ₯°πŸ˜˜β€οΈ xx How are we all today? Good I hope? Stayong safe and well in these difficult times that we live in. I do hope so. And if not, my heart goes out to you and I wish for better tidings soon. We can all get caught up in things that we have […]

What’s that song by Frank Sinatra?…

Morning gorgeous β€οΈπŸ§‘πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ€ŽπŸ–€πŸ€ xx How are we all today? I hope we’re all good and staying safe. The world is a very different place at the moment, from what it once was and nobody can predict what the likely outcome of current events will be. Whatever happens, we’re all human; we should all be standing […]

HRT – What they don’t tell you…

Morning gorgeous xx How are we all today? As usual I hope you’re all well and staying safe. I’m gonna be honest with you today, I’m not. In fact, for the last few days all I’ve done is sleep. For the last few months, if someone doesn’t drag me out of the house, I’ve not […]

Transphobia 101…

Morning Gorgeous xx Pride month is near, June is on it’s way, The the sun is shining somewhere, Have a lovely day… Vikki Kinsella, 15/05/22 How are we all today? Are we good? More importantly; are we well, safe and do we have the capacity to live through this day without fear?… If you do, […]

The Lightbulb Moment

Morning Gorgeous xx How are we all today? Are we feeling good? For those of you that are not, and cannot find a reason why, this post is for you. Trust that what I am about to talk about and tell you; is a key element of personal success. If there is something that is […]

Hidden Disabilities Do Exist

Morning gorgeous β€οΈπŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œ xx How are you all today? I hope you are well and staying as safe as can be, in this ever changing world of ours. For those that are facing difficulties, maybe this post will help. It might bring some comfort, maybe you feel less alone?… Maybe it won’t, but do take […]

Karmic Balance…

Good afternoon people. How are we all today? Hope we’re good and surviving well. I only wish the best for everybody and come what may, understand that the wheel of fortune will always turn in your favour eventually. It must, it’s Karma… Which is the subject of this flipping post. This is not a 4am […]

Lies… And the people that tell them.

Morning Gorgeous xx Hope you’re all OK and staying safe. Times are troubled, life is changing and we all have reason to worry about something. For some it’s greater than others; but all our worries are valid nonetheless. Take comfort in the knowledge that everything changes, that’s the purpose of time. Believe in that, if […]

I had a Brain Fart…

Morning Gorgeous πŸ™‚ xx How are we all on this fine day of ours? Hope everyone is good and you’re all staying safe as can be in these chaotic times of ours. For those of us, like myself, fortunate enough not to be in too much difficulty right now, never forget that there are those […]

Moving on with life β€οΈ

Morning gorgeous β€οΈπŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’œ xx How are you all doing? Good I hope. I do hope that things are starting to ease for you. That the havoc that has been wrecked upon us is slowly starting to have less of an impact on your life. And that you’re finding your new “Normal”. We will all get […]

Rejection – In all it’s forms

Morning Gorgeous πŸ™‚ xx And how are we all today, all Thirteen Bloody Hundred of you! Where the hell did you all come from? I’ll be honest, right, shooting from the hip as I always do… I never, NEVER, expected this blog to be a success. I just didn’t. It was never written for that. […]

The Binary Model

Morning gorgeous ❀️❀️❀️ xx I hope you’re all good today; that you’re enjoying life as best you can and living what life you can to its fullest potential. Today, I’d like to put my take on the Binary model that us, as a mammalian species, are intrinsically attached to. You know the one. The one […]

Finding home within yourself…

Morning gorgeous ❀️ xx How are you out there? All good I hope. Thank you for taking the time to read my ramblings over the first part of my transition. It has been an honour to gather your feedback along the way, and all the advice that has been given, has been extremely helpful. Writing […]

Update – 18/7/20

Morning Gorgeous xx How are you all today my lovelies? I hope the current pandemic hasn’t taken too much of a toll on you. I hope you all have been able to adjust to a new normal, been able to withstand (as best you can) the tumultuous effects of recent times and there is still […]

Fear – Redefining viewpoints in a negative way

Morning gorgeous xx I hope you’re all stating safe and well in these difficult times. For those whose lives have been affected, I pray for you and ask that you stay as safe and warm as you can and bear with the world while it adjusts to these massive changes wrought up on us – […]

Gender, Colour and Harry Potter, et. al…

How our opinions are shaped by fear of the unknown Morning Gorgeous xx I hope you’re all OK and surviving well in these difficult times. We are all facing the very same issues, just from different angles for most of us. And that difference in viewpoint means we approach the same problem in very different […]

Starting over

Morning gorgeous xx I hope anyone who reads this is OK and that they are staying safe and well. For those that can’t,or are not, things do change. For wherever its worth, have faith that they do. Tonight has been pivotal in my transition. It’s not often someone can break through the hard outer shell […]

Letting go…

Morning gorgeous xx Hope you’re all staying safe, well and indoors during this viral outbreak of epic proportions. And those that can’t, that the world needs to fight this, I salute you. From the bottom of my heart, I thank you all for your hard work in the face of this virulent, deadly, threat against […]

Troubled times

Morning Gorgeous xx I hope and pray that anyone who reads this is safe and well at a time of global pandemic and fear. It’s not nice, it’s not a very good place for the world at large to be and many people are suffering, both visibly and invisibly as we all try to come […]

This is my church…

Morning Gorgeous xx How are you all today? Good I hope? Hope your having a better week than the one I’ve had anyway. And for those that aren’t feeling oh-so-well at the moment, I FEEL YOUR PAIN. I really do because at the moment it just seems to be one crisis after another. As I […]


CONTENT WARNING – STRONG LANGUAGE Morning gorgeous xx How are you all this afternoon? Good I hope. For those that aren’t so good, I do hope things change for you soon. As usual, hugs all round and best wishes to one and all. I’m going to briefly mention the Corona Virus (COVID-19, SARS-COV-2) as it’s […]

Dealing with Negativity & Dysphoria

Morning gorgeous xx As anyone who reads this blog regularly should know, I have a tendency to write most of my posts in the early hours of the morning, and this post is no exception to that rule. It should also be well known that some of the rougher posts I’ve had to write; have […]

Re-Inventing Yourself

Morning Gorgeous xx How is everyone today? Are we all having fun? I hope so. As usual, well done for those who’s life is going in the right direction, be it from either luck or good judgement. And my thoughts are with you for those who’s life is not quite heading where they would like […]

Tap The Rainbow

Morning gorgeous xx How are you all today? Good, I hope? If not, I do wish you the very gest and pray that things improve for you very soon xx Today, I’d like to talk about a process called “Tapping” or EFT Tapping as it may he known. In particular I’d like to detail how […]

Life on the other side

Morning Gorgeous xx How are you all today? Good I hope. As always, I hope that life is treating you well, I wish you every success and, if life is not heading in an upward direction, that it will do soon. And I hope it gets easier for you. In the meantime, however, I’ve been […]

Midnight Thoughts…

Morning Gorgeous xx I say morning gorgeous as that’s my standard greeting to you all, and a bit of a trademark (figuratively speaking) regarding the way I greet people in general. It’s been said in the past that I’m so laid back I’m practically lying down, lol. And I suppose that’s true for, the most […]


Morning gorgeous xx I hope your all happy and well, that life is treating you kindly and your needs / wants are all taken care of. If not, and life is not treating you well, I pray you find peace soon ❀ The main topic of today’s post is things that trigger us and make […]

Calm before a storm

Morning gorgeous xx Hope everyone is OK; as the UK battles storm Ciara. Do remember to check on loved ones in every part of the UK – You don’t really know if everyone is OK unless they’re able to tell you. And for those who are suffering under the battering ram that Britain is facing, […]

360 Degree Feedback

Morning Gorgeous… How are you all today? Good I hope. As that’s the meaning of life; to feel good about ourselves, to survive in this crazy world of ours and for life to be peaceful and enjoyable – Whatever issues life may throw at us. However, life isn’t always like that. It isn’t always a […]

Time flies when you’re having fun? Or does it…

Morning gorgeous xx I hope everyone who used to read this is still following and hasn’t forgotten. If you have, that’s not a surprise; it’s been nearly a year since I wrote last. And a lot has happened in that time. It will take me several posts to bring you up to date with all […]

Keeping Busy…

Morning gorgeous xx How are you all doing today? Hope you are all well and life is treating you good; if not, I do empathise and I’m sending my biggest hugs out to you. So, first of all allow me to apologise for the lack of recent posts. I started this blog as a way […]

Going it alone…

Afternoon gorgeous XX How are you all today? I hope you are all well and enjoying the unseasonably good weather we are having here in the UK – Long may it last πŸ™‚ … So, anyway, let me apologise first of all for being a little quiet recently. Work commitments took a great deal of […]


Hello everybody, How are you all? I hope you are well and life is being kind to you, as it has been to me recently. First of all, let me apologise for the lack of posts in recent months. December is traditionally a difficult time for me; I have the anniversaries of a number of […]


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