The Lightbulb Moment

Morning Gorgeous xx

How are we all today? Are we feeling good? For those of you that are not, and cannot find a reason why, this post is for you. Trust that what I am about to talk about and tell you; is a key element of personal success. If there is something that is holding you back from moving forward in your life, what I am about to talk about is your key Light-Bulb moment – You will be sat there like a nodding dog at the end of it.

Just like I was…

And I already knew it. And to really strike it home to me. I’ve already wrote about it – Seriously, when I realised that, my head fell off.

It did, no word of a lie. I’m still reeling from the revelation as I write; because I had to write, I was compelled to write – I’ve got to get this down; the emotion the emotion that I’m feeling currently is far too strong. You must be able to see it in my writing?

I’m sat here, thinking, “What do I do next?”, “How do I deal with this?”, “Do I even need to, once I’ve wrote it down?”. Honest answer, No. Because moving too fast, you replace one feeling with another, and you end up not thinking about what you’re doing. Which is why I’m doing this. There is that immediate response to removing a barrier and moving forward.

Think about it. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. Cause and Effect. You turn the TV on, the screen springs into life. You eat something, you’re probably going to need to go the toilet 24 hours later (or less if you shouldn’t have eaten it). You write a blog and publish it on the internet, someone reads it. Correct?. Everything you do, something will happen. But here’s the thing? What if you’re scared of doing anything? What then?…

I’ll tell you, because I want to share this lightbulb moment with you. That’s why I’m writing this blog, to share my story. To tell people that you can do this, that you can change your life. That it is possible. ANYTHING, is possible.

Now, I’m not going to do the American thing (sorry guys, I’ve seen it so many times; it’s a default association – I have really good friends who are American, and I love them to bits; just so you know) and set you up to buy my Life Changing Book, that everyone must read; available in all good Bookstores for £39.99, or our special discount price of £25.00 if you order from this website in the 22 seconds… Nah! Stuff that. Make’s your head explode, doesn’t it?

What I’m going to ask you to do, is to read a few things. Nothing more, just follow the links I’m about to give you, in a Top to Bottom order. Nothing more than that. No £99 CD’s, £40 Books, £1,000 life-coach courses. None of that. The one single piece of information that you will gain from following these articles will change your life. Not because of the information itself, but because I’m offering you the proof that it’s possible and I’m laying my soul bare to do it. This key piece of information is the reason I’m still alive, people. And it’s the only reason I’m still alive.

Now, every moment I’m thinking, “Is this the right thing to do”. Should I be doing this? And the answer is yes. Even though, at times, I feel like a copy-cat; a fraud, because I’m doing on the basis of something that I’ve seen. But I believe this. I believe this. I believe it is possible. To conquer. Any. Fear…

Yep. So fucking simple isn’t it? Fuck me, it’s like a lightbulb. But the only reason I’m alive is because I learnt love my fear and accept it as a part of me. Because it is. I can’t change it. But I’m not going to let it rule my life either. And I love the fact that I can feel that fear. Makes me gush

Look, read these and watch the video. The Video is not mine, hence why I’m apprehensive about this. But I believe that’s the validation I’ve been waiting for. And now I’ve got it, I’m passing it on to you. For free. I should be writing a best selling book about this, and making a fortune, aiming aiming to live in a big mansion with lovely gardens. No. My life has never been about that – I’ve had money and lost it. And I’ve also come up with ideas that have change the lives of a lot of people, and got no recognition for it. No.

I’m taking control of this. Follow these steps, and if you have the tools needed to change your life; ping back and let me know. I get my happiness from seeing people smile.

Right. What do you need to do? It’s simple. Follow these links. One by one. You’ll learn about me, you’ll learn how I conquered my fears and you’ll learn how to do it. That’s it. Here we go

My Story – Feeling Trans

Reasons for Change. – Feeling Trans

A Brave New World. – Feeling Trans

Toiletgate. – Feeling Trans

The hardest thing I’ve ever had to write – Feeling Trans

Hidden Disabilities Do Exist – Feeling Trans

Rejection – In all it’s forms – Feeling Trans

Lies… And the people that tell them. – Feeling Trans

By now, you’ll have the measure of me. Now for the gemstones…

Fear – Redefining viewpoints in a negative way – Feeling Trans

What no one is telling you about fear and anxiety | Kristen Ulmer | TEDxNaperville – YouTube

That last one nail’s it. Kristen Ulmer is a Genius. She is. There’s a disclaimer under the video from TED; because the science behind what she is saying, hasn’t been proven yet. Well I’m telling you it’s fucking right, because I was like a nodding dog reading it. Because there’s no way I’ll have survived that kind of ****, without knowing, or learning (more importantly), about what she talks about. She has nailed it. Finally.

Now I might write that book. Something is telling me to do it. This, is where I will start.

Much Love,

Vikki Kinsella xx

By Vikki Kinsella

My name is Vikki, and I’m a Transgender Female living and working in the UK.

I’ve started this blog purely as a way of writing down my thoughts and feelings, as I now start my journey through transition from living life as Male to becoming Female, and beyond. You see, I spent 45 years of my life living as, what is now known as, a cisgender Male - With almost no idea that I could even consider being Female, let alone consider corrective surgery. But I must admit I did have a tendency to THINK like a woman sometimes... But doesn't every Man think like a woman on occasion? Don't try and hide it boys, you know you do, lol...

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